Let’s Talk Bookish: Why do People Lie About Reading Books?
Hey, everyone! I hope you’re all doing well. This is like, the first time ever that I’ve managed to do LTB three weeks in a row. That’s an accomplishment. So, let’s get started!
Let’s Talk Bookish is a weekly meme created by Rukky @ Eternity Books and is hosted by Rukky and Dani @ Literary Lion where we discuss various topics and share our opinions. Today’s topic is Why do People Lie About Reading Books? (suggested by Jillian @ Jillian the Bookish Butterfly).
Some people will say they have read books when they really havenβt; why do you think that is?
Honestly, I don’t know. I don’t really see the point of lying about reading a certain book. If someone starts talking to you about it, and you haven’t read the book, then you’re going to have no clue as to what the person is talking about. You may even get spoilers. Actually, you most definetely will get spoilers. The only reason that I can think of as to why people would lie about reading books is that maybe they don’t want to be judged for not having read a certain book. Maybe the book is really popular or it’s a timeless classic and other people will be astonished that they haven’t read it.
Have you ever personally lied about reading a book?
I can’t remember any time that I have, so I’m going to say no. I probably have lied about reading a book, but it may have been because I mixed it up with a different book, which I know for certain I’ve done before. But in my memory, I haven’t lied about reading a book.
How do you feel about people who lie about reading books?
I don’t really have any different feelings towards people who lie about reading books, I have nothing against them. That’s mainly because I don’t know anyone who lies about reading books. Or if I do, I don’t know about it. But if I did know someone, I might be slightly. . . annoyed, I guess. If you want to have a conversation with someone about the book, but they didn’t read it, it’s kind of one-sided.
Do you think thereβs a certain type of book people are more likely to lie about reading?
Like I mentioned above, people may be more likely to lie about reading books that are super popular or classics. I know I’m surprised when someone hasn’t read certain books, like Harry Potter or Percy Jackson. Those are two series that I’m pretty sure you could mention to any random person and they’d known what you’re talking about. Other books like To Kill a Mockingbird, Pride and Prejudice, or Jane Eyre are classics that a lot of people have read, and that someone might lie about. I, for one, have not read Pride and Prejudice or Jane Eyre.
There may also be books that people might lie about because they don’t want to read them. They’ll say they’ve read it so others won’t keep suggesting it to them. I know for me, there’s a lot of popular series I’m probably never going to read, either because I don’t have time or I’m just not interested in them. I probably wouldn’t lie about it, but I can see why some people would.
Conclusion
This post was a lot of fun to write. I honestly don’t understand what the point of lying about reading books is, but I do get that some people will do it. I have nothing against them, I just think it’s slightly. . . pointless.
What are your thoughts on people lying about reading books? Have you ever lied about reading a book?
Chat with me in the comments below!
8 Comments
naomiclimateandcats
Wow! That was a really interesting post. I feel like, if someone lies to me about reading a book, well, too bad for them… I guess… like, obviously I’m gonna spoil it for them. I don’t really lie about a book, but I do think about what I’ll think when I finish reading the book, and sometimes I say that before I’ve actually finished the book… Anywho, good post!
Lotus @ Pages of Starlight
Yes, definitely! If you haven’t read the book, but you said you did, I’m going to give you spoilers. I do that too. l’ll talk about a book as if I’ve read it, because I have, I just haven’t finished it yet. Thank you!
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Ashmita | thefictionaljournal
Whoa that’s pretty interesting! Personally, I don’t lie about having read a book. I lie about not having read a book ππ€£ I get too embarrassed haha. I lie to in real life people that I don’t read books because ugh. Too muchh judgement. And then I lie about not having read fifty shades and other books ππ
Lotus @ Pages of Starlight
I’m not sure if I’ve ever Iied about not reading a book, but I can totally see where you’re coming from. Some books are not exactly the type others would expect you’ve read.
Rukky @ Eternity Books
Same, I also wonder what the point of lying about reading something is because you can easily get caught in the lie. Maybe they stalk spoilery reviews or summaries online just in case lol. I tend to lie by omission? So I don’t mention that I’ve read a certain book just because I don’t really consider it as reading, or for whatever reason. Though with popular books and classics, I don’t really care that I haven’t read them, so I don’t feel the need to lie about it. Harry Potter, To Kill a Mockingbird, Pride and Prejudice, any Austen and Bronte book besides Jane Eyre (had to for school) I haven’t read, and it’s not really a big deal. Nobody’s disowned/unfriended me for it so far at least ππ
Lotus @ Pages of Starlight
Yeah. Maybe they do stalk spoiler-containing reviews, it’s a possibility. I tend to lie by omission as well. That’s true, I know I haven’t read a lot of popular books and I don’t really care about. I’m probably never going to either. Well that’s very good π
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